Travel Tip Tuesday: It’s a Security Line, Not a Fashion Statemen

This post is mainly for the ladies…we will talk about general flight attire at a later date….

Trust me when I say I like all the girly “stuff.” It may have hit me a little later in life, but I have boxes of accessories, a walk-in closet that is bursting at the seams, more shoes than I can count and love to do fun and creative things with my hair and make-up. All of that said, the rules change when trying to get through the security line with our friends at TSA. I am in no way suggesting completely slumming it (as I am a firm believer of dressing nicely to fly) BUT a few things to keep in mind:

1.) Jewelry is fabulous. I love my big rings, necklaces, earrings and watches as much as the next shopaholic, BUT all of that non-sense will light up like the Fourth of July in any metal detector or x-ray machine. Clearly you are going to either need to take it all of either before you go through (which standing behind “that” girl is a nightmare) or you are going to have to take it off after the molestation that ensues with the standard pat down. So do yourself (and the frustrated Road Warrior behind you) a favor and either a.) leave it off  OR b.) put whatever accessories you want to bedazzle yourself with in your purse and put it on during your hour long wait at the gate.

2.) Shoes. You are going to HAVE to take them off, go through security and then put them back on. So let’s consider this one for a moment…. all those super cute heels that have a million straps, those fun sandals that take the artistry of an Egyptian Power Loomist to secure on your feet or any shoes with laces for that matter are probably not great options to wear to the airport. Wear easy, comfortable slip-ons. Trust me when I say that it will save you minutes in the day and stress off your life. Not only that, but at some point, you will probably have a distance to walk, so a low heel with a soft sole is critical (especially if you are traversing through a major airport at some point along your journey).  These are the ones that I wear…

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3.) Hair. Trust me, I have a lot of it and have made the mistake of wearing my hair up, especially on the way home from work where I am rocking the professional up-do and about a million bobby pins. Not only does hair accoutrement also trigger the metal detector, but when I have had anything going on upstairs that reflects any kind of bulges, the plastic gloves end up poking and prodding my coif for that elusive hair bomb. Do yourself a favor, keep it simple….wear it down, in a pony tail or braid…otherwise you can bet you’re going to get a not so friendly scalp examination.  

 

Just these three simple tricks will get you through the cattle call with much more speed and much less stress!  

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Where in the World Monday: Chicago, Il

Where in the World Wednesday: Chicago, Il

CHICAGO!!!!! Finally I am able to check this city off my bucket list of all-time great US cities and to say it didn’t disappoint might be one of the biggest understatements I’ve made to date. It was absolutely all I thought it ever could be and then some. The architecture, the food, the people and just the overall “vibe” in the air was INCREDIBLE….I think electric might even be closer to the right word. On top of how amazing the city was, I had an incredible partner with whom I was paired up for the week that was equally enthusiastic about the city and all it had to offer…. MJ, it’s already been too long!

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For starters, the hotel at which I stayed was in a historic part of the city called Printer’s Row. This area of town was made famous for, you guessed it, newspaper printing. Although much of the area has now been retrofitted for hotels, restaurants and shops, there were still so many remnants of days gone by. Even the Starbucks on the corner got into the nostalgia as one entire walls in the coffee shop was a collage of old printing keys, alphanumeric, all shapes and sizes. Stunning….

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The hotel itself was in a historic building, well, actually three historic buildings that were seamlessly blended together   My room was floor to ceiling windows overlooking an amazing building and the bustling street down below….

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The highlight of my trip was FINALLY getting to go to a game on the road, and where else should it really have been than WRIGLEY FIELD?!?!?! We began the evening at the world famous Cubby Bear for a quick beer and then off we went into the park.  In addition to just being in shock and awe of being in such hallowed grounds, my escort for the evening scored us AMAZING seats…Can you say 10 rows directly behind home plate! ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME!?!?

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After the game, my wonderful host took me to an absolutely stunning bar that had once been a historic bank.  The lounge itself was inside of the old vault, complete with all the copper trimmings of the safety deposit boxes….about this time, I also hit a wrong button on the camera as is evidence by the fabulous blurry pic!

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On the fourth night, my travel buddy and I took to the streets of this amazing town! We walked the main drag and got in all of the tourist “must dos”…. Buckingham Fountain, the Bean, the River….definitely going to do the architecture tour on the next go around! For dinner, what else but a little cheese & wine to start followed by some amazing deep dish and beer!

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I have said it 100 times since I have been back from this amazing town…I could move there TOMORROW, well, except for that whole January Winter situation…. Just a couple more fun shots….

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Travel Tip Tuesday: Flying Without Status

This week and next week I am doing something of which I have become unaccustomed, flying without status. Flying as regularly as I do now, having status on my favorite and most frequently flown airline, United, has made a WORLD of difference in my “daily” commute. With premier status the perks include  bags flying free, front of the line security access, free upgrades to first class (from already preferred economy plus seating), first boarding group on the plane, priority baggage off the plane…and the list goes on…

…The next two weeks I have none of this, which puts me in the casual flier versus road warrior realm of being.  So a couple of easy tips that I will be employing myself this week:

1.) Packing light to ensure no checked bags. Not only can the lines take forever just to check baggage, now just about every airline out there charges for them to fly. Taking only the bare essentials (and not the,” well maybe I might wear this” item) will save you both time and $$$$.

2.) Setting an alarm for check-in. Most (if not all) airlines allow you to check in 24 hours in advance online. When talking about an airline like Southwest, this is a crucial thing to do  to ensure the best opportunity for as early boarding as possible. The earlier you board, the better chance you will have overhead space available and your bags won’t have to get checked at the gate. No checked bags=no waiting at the destination.

3.) Getting to the airport 30 minutes earlier than normal. The security line is a constant moving target and without the luxury of the front of the line pass, I would rather be there with plenty of time to spare than being a stress case in line…. Plus, even if I’m not flying United, I still have Club access  and can enjoy a free cocktail while I wait 😉

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Where in the World Wednesday: Tampa Bay, Florida

By now, as you can imagine, I am in and out of quite a few airports and let me say this…Tampa’s is FABULOUS! The first thing I noticed as I walked off the plane there was a huge thatch hut bar/restaurant right in the middle of the terminal called the Green Iguana boasting a famous margarita that I was surely going to have to “test” out before taking off on my trip home. After disembarking from the little tram shuttle train that takes you from concourse to the main building, I noticed that there is art everywhere. I most definitely took notice in the tongue and cheek overtones of it being centered around other “flyers” such as owls and other various fowl. So far, pretty impressed…..and then I got to the main building of the airport where, there is quite literally a mall in the middle where even non-travelers can spend time with their loved ones before take-off…. this is GENIUS on so many levels!


It amazes me that the couple of times I have been to Florida there is always the same feeling of old-school, almost palm desert 1940s type glamour and this was no different. The pool at the property we were at definitely had this feel going on and I was very excited to utilize the facilities to rein in a little of that Florida sun on to my unseasonably pasty white body. As I got ready to pop into my suit there was another type of rein that Mother Nature had in store…RAIN…… and it did…..with a thunder….all. week. long.


So, plan B….the Rays were in town! WOO HOO! Finally was going to get to go to my out of state game…I had been foiled in Minneapolis when the Twins were in Anaheim the dates I was there, eluded in Dallas when it was going to be $200 for the Rangers v. Seattle, so now here it was the Rays in Tampa was going to be my first stop! I checked the schedule, bounced down to the front desk to inquire about a taxi and the cost. They estimated $50-60 each way… WHAT?!?!?! But I had seen the stadium on the way in and it was only like 5 minutes away!!! Cleary amused by my confusion, I was told that unless I was trying to see the Bucs play in June that unfortunately, that particular stadium wasn’t going to be very helpful for me. DOH!
Lucky for me there was in fact a sports bar in the hotel, the NBA playoffs going on and good company around! I did manage to make it out to the mall that was around the way for a brief stint, but otherwise it was an incredibly low key week…….

other little highlights of the trip…fun amenities in the room, having a two bedroom suite, everything about the air reminding me of Jamaica, getting upgraded to first class on the way home, and of course… the famous Green Iguana Margarita…

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Travel Tip Tuesday: Being Prepared for Emergencies!

Understanding that weekly travel is not everyone’s day to day world, (and trust me, 4 months ago it wasn’t mine either) I am sure that the crazy weather that has been tearing through the country doesn’t really spike on a lot of people’s radar (well on the West Coast anyway). In the travel world, however, the large amount of electricity that accompanies this time of year when the seasons are changing can cause a pretty intense amount strife in getting from A to B.

For example, did you know that Dallas Fort Worth getting struck by lightning last week and shut the entire airport (one of the biggest hubs in the country no less) down for several hours? Now, that may not seem like a big deal, but it was to thousands of people who were stuck at the airport over night. Worse yet, were the those that were already in route with no other diversion possibilities that were forced to land at Dallas. With no gates available because planes weren’t admitted to take off,  hundreds of  people were stuck in the plane for hours upon hours in the emergency field with no guaranteed time of disembarking. Planes ran out of food, beverages, water and even toilet paper!

 

With the casual flier, the probability of this occurring is extremely low….but what if? Would you be prepared to deal with what thousands of people had to endure at Dallas? The key in these situations is preparation. I want to share a few good ideas with you as well as a couple NECESSARY ideas with you.

Good Ideas:

  • Before any trip you take, purchase wet wipes for your carryon. You can get them in convenient travel packs which means they won’t take up a ton of space, they will make it through security just fine, they will last forever if you keep them sealed and you will find many other uses for them throughout your trip.
  • Have several protein bars packed in your carryon. Again, they last forever and if you are stuck, you won’t go hungry.
  • Bring an empty reusable bottle and fill it up once you make it through security. Flying causes dehydration in the first place, so you should be consuming plenty of water any way, which you can typically get it from a flight attendant at any time….except if they run out. This is your reserve bottle.  If your flight makes it all the way through with no issues, you will have this bottle to drink on the way to the hotel so that you can be fully rehydrated.

NECESSARY Ideas:

  • FULLY charge your phone & computer before going to the airport and resist the urge to “play” Facebook/listen to music/text/talk/etc on them while you are waiting for your flight (unless you are plugged so that you don’t utilize any of the charge).  Although many planes are beginning to have outlets at the seats, it is still rare to come by. There are so many things that can go sideways between take off and arriving safely in your hotel, it is imperative to have both for emergency situations while on the road.
  • Have a minimal reserve of CASH with you at all times. These days of using debit/credit cards exclusively (let’s face it, reward points matter) people are carrying cash less and less. It is absolutely imperative to have actual money on you in case you find yourself in a place where electricity is an issue so credit card machines are out or you are unexpectedly stuck in a remote town for a night and the cab you have to climb into does not take credit cards. Cash is still and will always be king.
  • Make sure there is at least one person on the planet who knows your EXACT travel itinerary that is not traveling with you. Think of it as the Phone a Friend option…. you never know when you might need help from  someone who has access to the internet or who can supply other forms of emergency assistance when/if you get stranded.  Some of my colleagues (who are well into their 50s ) that have been on the road for over 20 years still send their mothers their weekly flight schedules! If seasoned pros are doing it…..you should too!

Hopefully you will never need to actually utilize any of these “emergency” tips….but if you do run into that “what if” situation, I promise these will put you in a much better position to mitigate the damages!

 

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Where in the World Wednesday: Dallas, Texas

Where in the World Wednesday: Dallas, Texas
Between the Rangers being in town and the resort to which I was headed being one of luxury, I couldn’t have been more excited! What I didn’t realize is that Dallas is big…..like really big. What that meant for me very quickly was that my trip to the Rangers game was going to end up being a $60 cab ride each way and when figuring in tickets and food, suddenly my fun little venture was going to put a $200 unplanned expense in the budget…. plus they were playing Seattle…so meh…
Fortunately for me, I happen to be staying at the 4 Seasons, Las Colinas containing the course that hosts the Byron Nelson Classic Golf Tournament. This opened a whole new world of entertainment possibilities! I could play a course (not well obviously) that the pros play…. well except for that whole lightening issue. Almost as if clockwork, the minute I was done working for the day, the sky would light up with ferocious bolts of light. As spectacular as it was to watch, it definitely put a damper in my entertainment goals. I still was able to walk through the museum and see some pretty incredible golf memorabilia from days of old… but alas, no actual playing….
With no prospect of any major outside entertainment, I made do with the beautiful scenery that was the pool, the stunning marble in my room, various glasses of wine, 50 Shades of Grey (review and thoughts to come) and a Texas twist on my favorite treat of blue cheese stuffed olives….enjoy…

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Where in the World Wednesday: Itasca, Il, a suburb of Chicago

When I saw that Chicago had hit my schedule, I was absolutely over the moon! I have had the opportunity to do a fairly large amount of travel over the course of my life (even more now!) and there are just a very few great cities of our country that are still needing checks next their names on my bucket list…..New Orleans, Seattle, Orlando (for obvious reasons) and Chicago. I had been looking forward to visiting the Windy City for some time.

When I got my rooming information, I noticed an interesting addition to the city name….Itasca….what? Where in the world is that!?!? Dang! I was so close! While I am excited to go anywhere and everywhere, Chicago just happened to be a city about which I was really excited….until we actually landed. I had the incredibly rare opportunity to travel with a co-worker on this particular trip and while we were waiting for her luggage, CNN was on every TV in baggage claim showing the riots and protests that were going on downtown due to the NATO conferences that were taking place that weekend. When I saw law enforcement turn the fire hydrants on the crowds, suddenly Itasca didn’t seem so bad after all….

From time to time in my travels, I am lucky enough to receive little perks from the hotels at which we stay. Sometimes it is a fabulous dessert display patiently waiting for me on a desk upon check-in, other times a handwritten note from the hotel staff or perhaps a small gift (with your  little straw cowboy hat, I’m looking at you Dallas). What this particular property had waiting for me was stunning…yes there was a cheese plate and Voss water, but I almost missed it upon entering my 1200 sq ft suite. I am pretty sure that I have never been in a hotel room that big, let alone get to stay in one!

As I explored room by room in this incredible space I was blown away… massive bedroom, two couches, a chaise lounge, massive desk and sitting area, 3 TVs, dining table for 6, wet bar, a bathroom that would make many studio apartments sigh with jealousy but the biggest feature of the corner room was the amazing windows in every direction offering the most incredibly expansive views that left me breathless. Those who have traveled to the mid-west know what I am talking about when I say that there was nothing but green in every direction.  It was AMAZING!

This happened to be a very brief trip and our turn-around time was minimal so we didn’t have a ton of opportunity to do a whole lot of site seeing. We did, however, manage to make it to a Steak House that is fairly well known in that part of the world: Shula’s, yes, as in Coach Don Shula. Aside from delectable cuts of meat that they actually wheel over to your table so that you can see and select your cut of beef, from a presentation stand point, I had never ordered off a football before….the menu was a football…  amazing!

Gorgeous suite, great steaks, green trees in every direction, footballs for menus and not getting hosed down by a fire hydrant in the middle of the Magnificent Mile…..Itasca turned out to be not too bad of a place to hang out…. plus, downtown Chicago is coming….in the very near future 😉

 

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Travel Tip Tuesday: Having the Right “Gear” Part 1

Being in the days of club cards, casino player cards, annual passes, debit cards, bonus mile credit cards, department store cards, costco cards, gift cards, business cards of contacts met along the way and on and on and on, our day to day wallet is probably as thick as your standard deck of playing cards , no longer resembling the slim and sleek bill fold of the past. What might happen if the entire contents of this precious life necessity were to disappear? Even worse, how much more intense would that pain be if it got lost/stolen/misplaced/left on a plane, hotel or taxi while traveling knowing that you probably weren’t using half of the contents on the trip in the first place?

The huge amount of time and hassle invested in the ensuing process of cancelling credit cards, replacing club cards, gift cards  gone forever, discount cards never to be seen again is just not the risk of toting your entire wallet. When I am on the road, whether for business or pleasure, I bring my travel wallet and leave my normal one with the full contents at home. I bring with me only the necessary items; one bank card, one business credit card, one personal credit card and a minimal amount of petty cash (with plenty of small bills for tipping ease).

Some great features of my travel wallet (aside that it does in fact have a Mickey Mouse on it) is the fact that it has a window for my ID on the back (for easier access through security), a pocket for my cell phone and a strap that I can easily attach/detach to my carry-on bag so that its security is ensured. Have a look and have fun shopping for this essential travel piece!

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Travel Tip Tuesday: Adjusting to Time Zones- Domestic Travel

To say that I am not a morning person in my own Standard Pacific Time Zone would be quite an exaggeration….if my family or friends would call at any point prior 10am they would be met with a groggy version of me asking what they are thinking calling me in the middle of the night?!?!?!?! With my new career, however, there is no such thing as “too early” and typically no luxury  of arriving days in advance to adjust the body clock to the time difference. The following are little tricks have I started playing on my mind in order to make the transition smoother:

1.) As soon as I climb into my seat on the plane (and get my in-flight set up squared away), I immediately set both my computer clock and watch to the time zone to which I am heading. The mental preparation begins immediately and goes on throughout the duration of the flight so the adjustment of arriving somewhere 2 or 3 hours ahead has time to settle in.

2.) I eat my meals according to the new time, whether I am hungry or not. For some reason eating dinner between 6:00 and 7:00 (even if my stomach screams that it is only 3:00 or 4:00) makes my mind recognize that bed time is only a couple more hours away.

3.) I sleep with the hotel curtains mostly open. One of my favorite things about staying in hotels is that the rooms can typically be completely blacked out…..this is not a good situation when your 6:00am alarm goes off (which really would be the middle of the night in my home time zone). With the natural morning light streaming through the windows the body wakes up slower than with a shocking noise in a pitch black room.

Other handy tools that you might have learned along the way are certainly welcome!

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…..not a morning person…

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Getting Real, and It’s About Time: Warning, Massive Personal Transparencies Lie Ahead

For those of you who know me, and I mean really really know me ( like having had the pleasure of me “biOtching out” on a softball field or maybe giving you my unsolicited opinion in the office about the “right way” to achieve goals) you know that I appreciate perfection in others and even more-so DEMAND it out of myself.

This standard goes back at least as far as Kindergarten when, without even knowing what it was, I wanted to be the first “Star of the Week” (which I did get in tandem with my lifelong friend, Kyle). In Jr. High, I was never going to settle for just playing in the “Concert Band,” I needed to be in the “Wildcat Band” and, of course, First Chair at that. In college, I was not satisfied with just being in the top 10 in record books, I wanted to be number 1 on every list (which holding 6 #1 spots does put me at the most in PLNU History, as well as being #1 with most total over all appearances  in the books). In my last job, I was never satisfied with success and after taking home 3 National Awards (Tenacity and Innovator of the Year x2) in the 4 years I was with the company, while crushing property numbers year after year, I would say I could put a check mark there too.

….Stay with me, this is not the Leslie is Great Show, it does, in fact have a point…

In every aspect of my life, settling has NEVER been a part of my vocabulary. Whether it was school, sports, sales, and even the saxophone for Heaven’s Sake, I not only WANTED to be the best, but I HAD (and still HAVE) to be the best, and would do whatever it takes to get there. Up until last night, I never recognized the one incredibly glaring aspect of my life where, not only do I not demand the best, but end up compromising beyond the point of rationalization. What is even worse, is that it is in THE NUMBER ONE most important segment of life- a partner.

I took a long look in the mirror last night and was borderline disgusted with what I have allowed myself to put up with when it comes to what should be my LIFE TEAMMATE. If I allowed the kind of deficiencies on the field or in the business world that I have sadly welcomed in my relationships then I can honestly say I would be looking back at exactly 0 personal achievements in my life.

Looking back in my 15 years of having “real relationships” I have allowed abuse of every kind, but most damagingly was both the emotional and even yes, physical. I have put myself at health risks by enduring what should have been deal breaker type of STDs (and am incredibly lucky to have walked away unscathed).  I have rationalized cheating and lying.  I have let people put in 50% effort while I made up the deficit. It became crystal clear that I have allowed myself to be taken advantage of in every single way.

The first, and most obvious question to myself was, Why? Why have I allowed this to go on for so long? I have always thought of myself as a “strong and independent woman,” but clearly with the evidence above, this is not the case. The only answer I can come up with is fear. Whether it is fear of being alone, fear of not being able to make ends meet or fear of not being loved, there is a confidence issue that exists in this aspect of my life that does not appear anywhere else.

It occurred to me that in so many instances this fear has led me to give far more than I was receiving. Why should anyone ever give their best to settle for enduring someone else’s worst? Again, don’t misunderstand, I am FAR from perfect in any sense of the  term and have, in some instances, certainly been guilty of taking more than I was willing to put in at the time. I do think however, in the overall grand picture of those 15 years, that I have let fear drive me to be the “settler” far too often…and that changes NOW.

So why am I putting this out there for the world to see on what leans to being a more professional blog? The answer is two fold:

1.) Passing along the lesson with hopes of helping others.

I am sure that I am not alone in what I am going through and maybe this might impact someone who reads it, causing a change for the better in their own life. It’s time to take a good hard look in the mirror and find out if you are truly getting what you DESERVE because NO ONE should settle for less than the absolute most in a LIFE LONG PARTNERSHIP.

2.) Accountability.

It is a running joke with my friends and family that with relationships, I dive directly into the pool, jumping head first with no regard for the consequences. Putting it in softball terms, it would be a little like deciding to pitch the National Championship game the first day of the season. Without practice, mental preparation, conditioning, strength training, learning the opposing team, bonding with my own team, mastering my arsenal of pitches..etc… I would have NO chance to win that game. So why in the world would I consider doing it that way with the number one most important aspect in life? So dumb.

So what I am asking those of you in my day to day, and even in my not so day to day life (if you are reading this we are connected in some intimate way), is for holding me accountable during the next go around in my quest for a partner. I obviously need guidance paired with questioning to help me in making better and healthier decisions for myself. The next time I get all amped up about having finally found “The One,” I truly want some cement poured at my feet so that I don’t end up soaking wet.

Thank you for being a part of this very candid journey. I appreciate you.

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